@chrisheck I know exactly how you feel, Chris. In the last year of his life, our twenty-year-old son decided to drop out of college. He wasn’t happy in school. This was a shock to us, but we supported him and encouraged him to forge his own path. Later that year, he was killed in a motorcycle accident, but we had a great relationship right up until the end. I am thankful for this, as it would have been even more devastating if we had fallen out over this. Love them and support them as they are, which is exactly what you’re doing.